A Work in Progress: On Ten Principles Around Which to Organize My Life.
DOGMA IS DOGMA IS DANGEROUS (KILL THE BUDDHA)
Anything that is concretized is dead, and has lost all access to wonder and magic. There must be a constant striving to deepen our understanding of self and the world surrounding us. We must be consistently curious and open to revision.
NOT EVERYTHING FITS
Not everything fits in a neat little box that can be tied up with a bow and presented in perfection. Life is messy, and sometimes quite paradoxical. We exist amidst the tension of multiple opposites, and there aren’t always clean or simple answers. It is, however, easier and more comfortable to believe that there are. We must fight this, and be willing to grapple with the complexity of moral and ethical issues in their fullness. We must admit that we cannot always uphold all of our standards at once, and be honest about which ones we choose to prioritize in any given moment.
INTUITION WITHOUT KNOWLEDGE IS FOLLY WAITING TO HAPPEN
Intuition is an important tool to harness and sharpen. It attunes us to a deeper wisdom that is somewhat mystical, and wholly unexplainable (as of yet). It is dangerous, however, to rely on intuition solely – to utilize it without a system of checks and balances. Hunches and gut feelings should be honored and explored, but must be rigorously investigated for bias.
IF EVERYTHING IS SACRED, NOTHING IS
Claiming omnipresent sanctity is simply apathy masquerading itself. We cannot abdicate our responsibility in the name of God. Disease and violence are not sacred nor necessary, and we must fight against them.
MONSTERS DON’T EXIST
Adolf Hitler was not a monster. Serial killers are not monsters. Rapists are not monster’s. Pedophiles are not monster’s. Terrorists are not monster’s. They were/ are humans, just like us. And in us lies the potential to be just like them. We must, as a society, face the fact that we are more like other humans than we are different, and be willing to grapple with the immensity of our collective issues.
COMPASSIONATE ACCOUNTABILITY
We can (and should) hold people accountable for their actions, while also seeking to understand. We can (and should) fight against violence, oppression, and corruption, all while practicing radical compassion. Excommunication, imprisonment, and ostracization do little to deal with the root cause of these issues
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY, WITHIN CONTEXT
We are all responsible for our own lives, but some of us have less agency than others. Personal responsibility only goes so far, and it’s dangerous rhetoric if we fail to integrate contextual factors into the conversation.
WE WILL DIE WITH REGRETS (NO FOMO)
We won’t do everything we wanted to do or be everything we wanted to be. We’ll have to make hard decisions, and sacrifice certain things for other, sometimes equally as important things. This is reality, and it is important to simultaneously push against this and make peace with it. There aren’t any ‘right answers’ about how to live our lives, but we’ll have to live with whatever we choose.
PLAY FOR PLAY’S SAKE
Life is absolutely absurd and should be approached with a sense of humor. It’s tragic and beautiful and heartbreakingly hilarious. It makes no sense, and this is reason enough to celebrate. Dance wildly as often as possible.
BUT CONSEQUENCES STILL EXIST THO
Just because life has no inherent meaning doesn’t mean that you can just go around hurting people or being a douchebag for funsies. Be good to people. Fight for them. It may be all that matters.